Note: For clarity, in this article, we refer to "mortgage broker" as a general term that encompasses all mortgage professionals, including licensed mortgage brokers, Level 1 agents, and Level 2 agents.
Introduction
From the perspective of dual-licensed professionals who are both Mortgage Brokers and REALTOR®s in Ontario, one trend has become increasingly pivotal for first-time home buyers: the "Bank of Mom and Dad." Soaring property prices have made it difficult for many Ontarians to save a sufficient down payment on their own.
In response, more parents and family members are gifting down payments to help the next generation get a foot on the property ladder. The statistics are striking:
Gifted Down Payment Statistics (2025)
- 41% of first-time homebuyers used funds from a gift or inheritance toward their down payment (CMHC 2025)
- 36% of first-time buyers in Ontario receive financial help from family - higher than the national average
- Average gift in Ontario: $128,000, reflecting the high cost of homes in our market
- National average gift: $74,570 (CMHC 2025)
- Growth trend: Up from 20% in 2015, showing a 73% increase in gift reliance
These numbers underscore how critical family support has become in bridging the affordability gap for young buyers. Gifted down payments can truly be a game-changer, often putting homeownership within reach for those who might otherwise be left behind in today's competitive market.
Why Are Gifted Down Payments So Popular in Ontario?
Simply put, Ontario's housing market is expensive and competitive. The average home price in the province hovers in the hundreds of thousands (if not over a million in the GTA), and even a minimum 5-10% down payment can amount to a hefty sum.
Consider an example: a home priced at $700,000 (not unusual for an entry-level family home in many Ontario cities). The minimum down payment would be $45,000: that's 5% of the first $500k ($25,000) plus 10% of the remaining $200k ($20,000). Many first-time buyers find it challenging to amass $45k in savings while also paying rent, student loans, and living expenses.
2024-2025 Mortgage Rule Updates
Insured Mortgage Cap Increased: As of December 15, 2024, the maximum purchase price for insured mortgages increased from $1 million to $1.5 million
30-Year Amortizations: All first-time homebuyers can now access 30-year amortizations (previously limited to new builds only)
Down Payment Requirements: 5% down on first $500k, 10% on remainder up to $1.5M purchase price
If you aim for a 20% down payment to avoid mortgage insurance, that's $140,000 – nearly impossible for most young people to save within a few years. However, with the new rules allowing insured mortgages up to $1.5 million and 30-year amortizations for first-time buyers, homeownership has become more accessible.
What Is a Gifted Down Payment?
A gifted down payment is exactly what it sounds like: money given (not loaned) by someone – usually a family member – to be used toward the down payment on a home purchase. The key word is gift: it must be non-repayable.
Key Requirements for Gifted Down Payments
✅ Must be non-repayable: No expectation or requirement to pay back
✅ From immediate family: Parents, grandparents, siblings typically accepted
✅ Properly documented: Gift letter and transfer proof required
❌ Not a loan: Any repayment requirement disqualifies it as a gift
❌ Not from friends: Lenders rarely accept gifts from non-family members
From a lender's perspective, gifted funds are an acceptable source of down payment as long as proper documentation is provided to prove the money is a genuine gift and not another form of borrowing. Lenders want assurance that you won't be saddled with having to repay this money, which could compromise your ability to pay your mortgage.
Who Can Provide a Gift?
Acceptable Gift Sources
✅ Always Accepted:
- Parents
- Grandparents
- Siblings
- Children
⚠️ Sometimes Accepted:
- In-laws
- Step-parents
- Close relatives with documented relationship
❌ Not Accepted:
- Friends
- Coworkers
- Unrelated benefactors
The logic is that immediate family are genuinely invested in your future and unlikely to demand repayment, whereas a loan from a friend could be a hidden debt. If there's any sort of requirement to repay, then it isn't truly a gift, and lenders will treat it differently (likely as debt).
Bottom Line:
A true down payment gift in Ontario must come from immediate family.
Gifts from friends are not acceptable unless the friend becomes a co-borrower or co-signer on the mortgage.
Why Gifted Down Payments Are a Game-Changer for First-Time Buyers
Gifted down payment funds have surged in popularity because they address the #1 barrier to homeownership: saving enough for a down payment. This is especially true in Ontario, where property values have grown faster than wages.
Accelerated Timeline
A gifted down payment can significantly accelerate your home purchase timeline. Instead of spending five or ten years saving, you might be able to buy now with family help. In Ontario's market, buying sooner can be crucial – prices have historically trended upward over time, so waiting can mean the target keeps moving further out of reach.
Stronger Financial Position
Having a larger down payment (thanks to a gift) can strengthen your position in several ways:
- Qualify for larger mortgage: Expanding the range of homes you can consider
- More attractive to sellers: Higher down payment perceived as more financially secure
- Lower monthly payments: Reduced mortgage amount means lower monthly costs
- Better mortgage options: Some lenders offer better rates for higher down payments
- Avoid or reduce mortgage insurance: 20% down eliminates CMHC premiums
Stress Test Benefits
Canada has a mortgage stress test that requires you to qualify at a higher interest rate (the greater of your contract rate plus 2% or 5.25%). A larger down payment lowers the loan amount, which can make it easier to pass the stress test with your income. This can be the difference between qualifying and not qualifying for your desired home.
30-Year Amortization Advantage
As of December 15, 2024, first-time homebuyers can access 30-year amortizations on both new and resale homes (previously only available on new builds). This can reduce monthly payments by approximately $300 compared to a 25-year term, making homeownership more affordable when combined with family gifts.
Lender Requirements and Rules for Gifted Down Payments
While lenders are generally very accommodating of gifted down payments, they do enforce specific rules to ensure the funds are legitimate gifts and not hidden loans. Here are the key requirements:
1. Gift Letter
Almost every lender will require a signed gift letter from the donor. This formal statement typically must include:
- Donor's name and contact information
- Relationship to you
- Exact amount of the gift
- Clear declaration that the money is a gift with no requirement of repayment
- Signatures from both donor and recipient
Sample Gift Letter Statement
"I, Jane Doe (mother), confirm that I am giving my son, John Doe, $30,000 as a gift towards the down payment of the property at 123 Oak St, Toronto, with no repayment expected."
2. Proof of Transfer
Lenders want to see a paper trail of the money moving from the donor to you. This usually means:
- Bank statement showing the incoming funds in your account
- Wire transfer receipt or transaction record
- Sometimes the donor's bank statement showing the withdrawal
- Clear single transfer is preferred over multiple smaller transfers
3. Timing Requirements
Many lenders prefer that gifted funds be deposited at least 15-30 days before closing. Some have a "90-day rule" for down payment funds. By depositing early, you eliminate questions about sudden large deposits.
4. Source of Donor's Funds
The gift itself should not be borrowed by the donor through unsecured means. Acceptable sources for the donor include:
- ✅ Savings and investments
- ✅ Home equity line of credit (HELOC)
- ✅ Second mortgage on their property
- ❌ Credit card cash advance
- ❌ Personal unsecured loan
How to Properly Use and Document a Gifted Down Payment
Receiving a generous gift from family is wonderful, but there are practical steps to ensure the funds are used smoothly in your home purchase. Here's a step-by-step guide:
Step 1: Get the Gift Letter Early
As soon as you decide you'll be getting a down payment gift, prepare the gift letter. Don't wait until the last minute. Fill it out with all required details and have the donor sign it. This ensures when it's time to apply for the mortgage, you already have the letter ready to submit.
Step 2: Plan the Transfer of Funds
Coordinate with your donor on how and when the money will be transferred. The method should be traceable:
- Bank wire transfer
- Electronic transfer (for amounts within limits)
- Bank draft or certified cheque
- Avoid cash - it raises flags for banks
Step 3: Keep Copies of Everything
Maintain a file with copies of key documents:
- Signed gift letter
- Proof of money transfer
- Bank statements showing the deposit
- Any additional documentation requested by lender
Step 4: Reserve Funds for Closing Costs
Important: Closing Costs Must Come From Your Own Funds
Lenders expect you to have closing costs covered from your own pocket, not via a gift. Closing costs typically amount to 1.5%–4% of the purchase price in Ontario.
Example: On a $600k home, expect $10k-$15k in closing costs that must come from your own savings.
Tips for a Smooth Experience (and Mistakes to Avoid)
✅ Best Practices
- Be honest and upfront: Always be transparent about the source of your down payment
- Use immediate family: Stick to parents, grandparents, or siblings as donors
- One lump sum: Avoid multiple small deposits when possible
- Clean donor funds: Ensure the donor's money comes from legitimate sources
- Time it wisely: Deposit gifts at least 30 days before closing
- Save your own money too: Have some personal savings for closing costs and emergencies
❌ Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Secret repayment agreements: Never agree to "pay back" a gift informally
- Using friends as donors: Lenders won't accept gifts from non-family
- Last-minute transfers: Don't wait until closing day to receive the gift
- Poor documentation: Keep all paperwork organized and complete
- Mixing with other deposits: Keep gift funds separate from other large transactions
Alternatives If You Don't Have a Gift
Not everyone can count on family support, and that's okay. Here are other strategies to help accumulate a down payment:
Home Buyers' Plan (HBP)
First-time buyers can withdraw up to $60,000 from their RRSP tax-free for a down payment (increased from $35,000 in 2022). If you're buying with a partner who also qualifies, you can each withdraw $60,000 (potentially $120,000 total). You have 15 years to repay this to your RRSP.
First Home Savings Account (FHSA)
This newer program (launched in 2023) allows you to contribute up to $8,000 per year (maximum $40,000 total) with tax-deductible contributions and tax-free withdrawals for home purchases. It combines the best features of RRSPs and TFSAs.
Government Programs
Various municipal and federal programs offer down payment assistance:
- Municipal down payment assistance programs
- First-Time Home Buyer Incentive (shared equity) - Note: Program discontinued for new applications as of March 2024
- GST/HST New Housing Rebate (up to $36,000 for homes under $450,000)
- Ontario Land Transfer Tax Rebate (up to $4,000 for first-time buyers)
- Toronto Land Transfer Tax Rebate (additional $4,475 for Toronto purchases)
The Dual Advantage: How Our DualBroker Professionals Simplify Your Journey
Working with a dual-licensed professional who is both a Mortgage Broker and REALTOR® provides a unique advantage when dealing with gifted down payments. This dual expertise means:
Coordinated Planning
DualBroker professionals handle both your mortgage pre-approval and home search, ensuring perfect alignment between your gift documentation and purchase timeline. No miscommunication between separate professionals.
Stronger Offer Position
Having your financing well-organized makes your purchase offer more compelling. DualBroker professionals can provide solid pre-approval letters and communicate directly with listing agents about your financing security.
Holistic Advice
Questions like "Should we put 20% down instead of 10%?" get answered from both mortgage and real estate perspectives, giving you balanced guidance that maximizes your financial well-being and real estate goals.
One-Stop Convenience
You always know who to call, and your DualBroker professional is deeply familiar with every aspect of your case. When it's time to firm up financing, they already have your documents, so approvals happen faster.
Conclusion: Turning Your Homeownership Dream into Reality
Navigating the world of gifted down payments in Ontario might initially seem complex, but with the right guidance it can be a straightforward and immensely rewarding path to homeownership. A family gift can significantly boost your buying power and help you purchase your first home sooner in Ontario's challenging market.
If you're fortunate enough to have the "Bank of Mom and Dad" in your corner, remember these key takeaways:
- Get that gift letter signed early
- Document everything properly
- Ensure the gift truly is a gift (no secret loans)
- Budget for closing costs from your own funds
- Take advantage of new 2024 rules: $1.5M insured mortgage cap and 30-year amortizations
- Work with a knowledgeable professional who understands the latest regulations
For those without family financial support, don't be discouraged. Explore programs like the FHSA and RRSP Home Buyers' Plan, and consider professional advice to chart a path. Every client's journey is unique, and whether you have a big gift, a small gift, or no gift at all, DualBroker professionals are committed to providing personalized, compassionate, and expert service.
Your dream of owning a home in Ontario is absolutely achievable, especially if you take advantage of available resources like family gifts and professional guidance. Working with DualBroker professionals, you can leverage every advantage to turn that dream into the keys in your hand.